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Meet Your Gown Whisperers

At The Barefoot Bride, YOU are the star of the show. We know how stressful it can be shopping for a gown and our motto is LET’S HAVE FUN!

We have over 2500 gowns which makes us one of the largest (by inventory) bridal boutiques in the country (most average 300 - 1000). BUT we wanted to make sure our barefoot brides felt the charm of a smaller boutique with a lot of glitter, confetti and SWINGS ~ more on that later.

Here is the team that you will be working with!

Joelle ~ the owner, but def not “the boss”

Joelle started this crazy concept of “not your traditional” bridal boutique about 15 years ago after searching for her own gown and not having the best time doing it. Joelle is energetic and her number one goal is to find you a gown, whether it be in one appointment or five! She’s even found the perfect gown at another shop to make sure her brides are beaming and giddy on their wedding day.

Her we’re a team mentality is what keeps the rest of the crew happy and creative!

Meg ~ Boss Babe

Meg is the first person you’ll speak with & the holder down of the fort. We tease that she is the bouncer, bartender and boss babe, although boss babe is 100% accurate. Meg keeps The Barefoot Bride running not so behind the scenes. Her super fun personality comes across with every interaction to make sure you feel welcome and wonderful at The Barefoot Bride

Callie ~ Gown Whisperer

Callie is our ball of energy and good vibes. Always looking for a chance to dance with our crew and yours. Her style and eye are impeccable and she’ll keep you smiling from ear to ear during your appointment. Be ready to dance ~ it doesn’t take much to get Callie in the groove!

Alteration Tips from one of our fave Designers Robert bullock

Nip and Tuck... A Guide to Wedding Dress Alterations

Not just anyone with a sewing machine and tape measure can make you and your wedding gown look great together. Do your homework and shine on your wedding day. Here’s how:

I remember reading an interview where a very famous designer spoke about childhood trips to Paris with her mother to view the season’s fashion shows and for her mom to have fittings on a new wardrobe. She spoke about it as if it were the most normal childhood experience ever.

Like we all did that as children, right? Come on, how many of us experience anything remotely close to Paris runways and perfect fitting fashion? Sure, you may have had a fitting on your prom gown…or maybe that dress fit nicely because you were young, beautiful, and could wear a perfect size 4, 6 or 10. That, of course, was before you became a full-blown woman and your body decided to change directions, before your bottom became a different size from your top or your boobs went on a separate journey from the rest of your body.  Hormones change as you get older, those visits to McDonalds may have reached critical mass, or your body simply got better acquainted with gravity. That’s life.

In the real world, for real women, the first time you usually drop some real bucks on a garment is when you are getting married. It’s worth it, but read on to make sure you are making the most of your dream purchase. There’s nothing quite like knowing you and your dress –like you and your marriage partner – look fantastic together.

The excitement of shopping for your gown, the anticipation of wearing it on that special day, the dreams and fantasies of your life ahead grab you.  All these things should grab you…but often the last thing on your mind is the alterations your gown will likely need.

You buy that fabulous dress and wait (and wait…) for it to arrive. Then, one day the phone rings and your sales consultant on the other end says, “Your gown just arrived!” You do a little dance. Then what? You run to the store (when they can schedule you in) and try it on. Some shops have in-house alterations. Some do not. Some that don’t offer the service themselves will conduct fittings for you with an out-of-house alteration person. Some simply hand you your gown with a list of local alterations people.

Hear me, brides. All “alterations people” are not created equally. And this is not a time to make a mistake. You want your stunning gown to fit amazingly on your perfect day.

I get photos of brides who wore my gowns almost daily and over the years I have seen some outstanding tailoring. I also have seen botched jobs that made me want to cry. A beautiful dress is only a work of art when it fits correctly.

Most people getting their gown altered don’t have sewing or tailoring experience so the process can be somewhat intimidating. You put your trust in someone you don’t even know and hope for the best.

Don’t.

Your dress and your day deserves better than simply hoping for the best.

What is a basque waist gown?

A basque waist gown is known for it’s fitted bodice that dips into a V or U shape, typically at the center of the waist. This style elongates the torso and adds a touch of fairy tale drama. Think timeless, think princess vibes and think of a dress that commands attention.

THE PROS ~

Elongates the torso ~ If you’re dreaming of looking taller or more statuesque on your wedding day, the basque waist is your best friend. The dip in the waistline creates an illiusion of length, making your sillouette appear elongated and elegant.

Timeless Elegance ~ Basque waist gowns have stood the test of time. From historical ballrooms to modern day celebrations, the basque waist keeps coming back for more! This gown screams classic bridal glam.

Accentuates the hips ~ The dramatic dip draws attention to the waist, giving you that perfect hourglass shape.

Fairy-Tale Vibes ~ Let’s be honest ~ this style has princess energy written all over it. Pair it with a flowing skirt or dramatic train and you’re ready for your storybook moment.

Vesatility with fabrics ~ Basque waists look stunning in almost every fabric. From dreamy tulle to structured satin, this style adapts to match your aesthetic perfectly.

THE CONS ~

Can shorten the legs ~ While the basque waist elongates the torso, it can have the opposite effect on your legs making them appear shorter. If you’re petite and want the illusion of longer legs, this might not be your go-to style

Not always forgiving ~ The fitted bodice of a basque waist gown can be less forgiving on certain body types, especially if you’re not a fan of emphasizing your mid-section. A skilled tailor can work wonders, but it’s something to keep in mind.

Limited modern options ~ While this style is timeless, it has made it’s reoccurence in several decades, the 80’s being one of them. Now it’s back, but designer’s aren’t sure how long it will be around so your choices may be limited after a few seasons and if you’re not into “fads” this trend may be one.

Potential fit challenges ~ The unique shape of the waistline requires precise tailoring. An ill-fitting basque waist can lose it’s magic, so finding a trusted seamstress is key.

Might feel formal ~ If you’re planning a relaxed or boho inspired wedding, the dramtic elegance of a basque waist might feel a little too fornal for you.

Finding the perfect gown for Mom, without it looking like it’s for Grandma!

PLUS 5 great websites to shop!

At The Barefoot Bride, we believe that every Mom deserves to feel just as stunning and confident as the bride herself. After all, this is a special day for her too! But finding the perfect mother of the bride gown can be tricky ~ how do you balance elegance, comfort and just the right touch of glamour? And we’re talking about ditching the weird overlay jacket!!

Whether you’re looking for something classic, modern or unique, we’re here to help with some expert tips to find a fabulous dress for the big day!

tips for choosing the perfect mother of the bride gown

Consider the wedding theme & Venue

The location and style of the wedding will help guide your gown choice. A formal ballroom event calls for a more sophisticated, full length gown, while a beach wedding might be better suited for a flowy, lightweight dress.

coordinate with the wedding party

While you don’t need to match the bridesmaids, it’s a good idea to complement their color palette, Neutral tones, jewel tones or metallics are all classic choices. Long gone are the days where you “shut up and wear beige

choose a flattering silhouette

A-line gowns are universally flattering, while fit and flare styles can highlight curves. Sleeves or capes can add elegance and coverage, if desired and a well tailored fit is always the key to looking polished.

Keep Comfort in mind

The wedding day is long and you’ll be moving around a lot of guests, dancing and celebrating. Look for breathable fabrics, a comfortable fit, and shoes that won’t leave you sore by the end of the night.

Start shopping early

Just like bridal gowns, mothe of the bride gowns often need alterations, so don’t wait until the last minute. Start shopping at least 3-4 months prior to the wedding to ensure a stress free experience.

Try before you buy!

If you’re like me, shopping for formals or mother of the bride gowns is not fun and can be overwhelming. Online options are wonderful, especially if they have a return policy so you can try on in the privacy of your own home. Some sites (Amazon) even have a try before you buy program and free returns.

Call a couple of your besties for a try on party. Let them help you navigate the process too. They won’t let you look bad on this special day!

Some of our fave sites for Mom gowns

Azazie

Azazie is an online only company that offers an expansive collection of high quality designs at affordable pricing. With over 500 styles in 80 colors, Azazie is committed to bring your 1 stop shop for gowns.

Returns/Exchanges ~ All standard size gowns are eligible for return/exchange

Try on at home program ~ Go to the try on section on their website. Choose 1-6 gowns, small processing fee and you have up to 7 days to try on and return without being charged. They sometimes have 10% off try on gowns to save you a little more!

Price Range - Starting at $99 Clearance starting at $29

Amsale

Amsale

A reflection of Amsale Aberra’s founding philosophy of elegant simplicity, each design is delicately handcrafted using couture dressmaking techniques in Amsale’s New York Atelier. The pieces excude modern feminity, unstated glamour and attention to detail ~ each beautifully mirrors it’s wearer’s unique personal style. The house’s ethos honors Amsale’s lifelong pursuit of enduring style that evokes a feeling and connection, an indelible legacy that is felt in every design.

Source - Amsale Website

Return Policy ~ Certain items in the evening collection are eligible for return within 14 days of delivery, no exceptions. NOTE: There is a $25 restocking fee for anyone in the continuous US and $15% restocking fee for all returns from Hawaii, Alaska, Puerto Rico, Canada and International locations.

Virtual Appointments ~ They have dedicated stylists that can do virtual appointments for a 30 minute one on one video call.

Price Range - $$ - $$$ Price matching if they have a dress in stock that you find a less expensive gown online. So gowns in stock, some require 6-8 weeks lead time. $50 off coupon when you sign up for emails.

Xscape

Xscape

Xscape carries beautiful gowns for any style. From fitted to flowy, Xscape is a one stop shop for affordable gowns that ship from their stock so no need to wait for it to be created.

Return Policy ~ Returns available within 14 days of purchase for a refund and 30 days of purchase for an exchange.

Price Range ~ Sale gowns starting at $99 Regularly priced gowns start at $199

GHRAIL NYC

Born and made in the heart of NYC. Ghrail is proud to be female founded embodying the entrepeneurial spirit that defines NYC. Their mission is to craft beautiful, trendy pieces that exude sophistication. Ghrail believes that everyone deserves to feel confident and effortlessly chic. With Ghrail, it’s not just about wearing a dress, it’s about embracing your individuality and making a statement with every step you take.

Return Policy ~ Returns accepted within 14 days of delivery date for a refund or free exchange. All sales final on items on final sale items <$100. Shipping charges are not refundable. A label fee of $10 will be deducted from refunds.

Price Range ~ $99 and up sale gowns; $229 - $400 for regularly priced gowns

Theia

THEIA

Inspired by the Goddess THEIA and worn by celebrities, THEIA sells cocktail, formal, MOB gowns and bridal wear.

Return Policy ~ Returns can be made within 14 days of purchase. $12 re-stocking fee and original hanger, packing must be included

Price ~ $$$ Gowns generally run between $545 - $1400

LARA

LARA

Lara was created by two siblings, Jasmine and Herman. Their passion for dresses was instilled in them. They launched Lara.com in 2015 with a vision to create fashion forward gowns that fit women all shapes and sizes. Be sure to look in all categories, not just MOB

Return Policy ~ 14 day return policy, to be eligible for returns or refunds. Must be returned with tags on in original packaging with receiot. Outlet and sale gowns are not returnable. There is a $30 return shipping fee on all returns.

Price ~ $ Sale items $99 and up; Regukar price $398 and up

TERI JON

TERI JON

Teri Jon is a luxury brand that is made for women like you ~ Professionals, Mothers, World Travelers, Home-makers, Sisters. The clothing line boasts a stunning array of gorgeous styles in both day and evening wear collections, at affordable prices. It’s a brand for all women for all of life’s special occasions. They have a great section called Mother of the Bride or Groom Survival Guide

Return Policy ~ Returns or exchanges must be initiated through their online portal within 21 days of purchase. Items must be new, unused with all tags attached. Sale Items are FINAL SALE and not returnable. $15 return labels charged - $200 restocking fee if you order more than 5 items and all are returned.

Price ~ $320 - $1380

Great Re-Sale and rental options

Thred Up ~New and lightly worn gowns at a fraction of the retail price

Rent The Runway ~ One time gown rentals

Ebay ~ New and lightly worn gowns at a fraction of the retail price

Poshmark ~ New and lightly worn gowns at a fraction of the retail price

Just Remember

Finding the perfect gown should be an enjoyable experience, not stressful. By considering the wedding style, coordinating with the wedding party and shopping from trusted retailers. you can find a dress that makes you feel confident and beautiful.

If you need additional help styling your look or finding the perfect accessories, The Barefoot Bride is always here to offer expert advice. Happy Shopping~